Friday, December 31, 2010

happenings in yr 2010

Jan

3rd year anniversary with Mr. Lee.

It's stressful period as due dates of assignments are sooooo sooooo soooooo close!


After the never-ending-assignments and presentation,
there's finally time to breathe a little before exams come!

soooooooooo.
Fav activity with Fav Friend increases!!


Then there's this confusion to take NAFA Test or not.
Some say that one cant graduate if one didnt take NAFA.
Anyway, i decided to take it!(:

Gold it(:

Last Project and we go haywire :p


Not forgetting my best friend,
we still meet once every month(:


Celebrate Linda's bdae with 1st love(:




Feb

a month of love(:

It's Vday,
celebrate it with 1st love at top table.
Met wan ting too(:

simple powerpoint slides were given as V.day gifts to my friends, boyf and family(:

had a simple dinner with hongjun(:

anddddddddddddd.
it's CHINESE NEW YEAR once again(:



my first time doing menicure!!!

right after CNY, it's one week study week.
Then it's EXAM!!
final exam in TP!

exam over;
no longer feel relief.
instead.... everyone had mixed feelings.
don't know what to do upon graduation.

Mar

Celebrated Xin Ling's 20th bdae.
Sang K and had dinner.
(and silly her gave me stuff she made though it was suppose to be her bdae celebration)


Celebrated Hui Lin and Charlene BIG 2!
(:




on 17th March, it's LRM PROM night(:
and it's my virgin time to club(:


1st love planned a trip to genting.
sad to say, charlene couldn't join as she had not enough money.
Linda couldn't join as she just started work.
and somehow Carmen couldn't join at the very last min as she gt wrk commitments as well.
So me huilin gina and shermaine embarked on this trip ourselves.


meet up with 1st love for dinner; our monthly date(:

lunch with Sharmine before she go overseas again!

Me and hongjun relationship seems stable.
we still go each other house for dinner.
we still hang out.
we tried hard to get back to how we used to be..
somehow, there is still a gap. hmmmmm.

i started working in zoo for the month of march.
It is training as WildLife Reserve Singapore is going to open a shop in Airport, and i am going to work there. but most products are from Zoo, thus i need work in Zoo for a month to be familirize with the products.

Apr

Worked in Airport Terminal 2 Departure Hall under Wildlife Reserve Singapore.
working hours were odd like from 4.30pm-1.30am or 5.30am to 3pm kind.
haaaaa.

went to Science Centre with Husband Huilin during my off day(:


and i helped out with LRM Orientation.
heeheeee.
acted as ghost :p


andddddddddddddd.
Carmen had decided to work overseas for half a year.


I went to Taiwan for 8days7nights with hongjun and his family.

(was hoping tt this trip strengthen our relationship.
But it seems to be otherwise..)


May

Helped out in DBS Bank Event.

continue working at Airport Terminal 2 Departure Hall.

It's hongjun's graduation day.
I attended it as his girlf.
went kbox with him and his friends afterwhich.
And that night, we ended.

My graduation day on 21st May.



worked almost every other day.
During off days, i gave cousin celine tution.

My whole month was packed.
I don't know if i am indulging myself with work so i wouldn't overthink or what.

somehow, it's a tough period.

on and off, hongjun will appear at my doorstep.
we will exchange texts and he will start saying about patching.
my feelings go up and down like a rollar coaster with him.

June

sort out my thoughts.
had been working since mar till now, 3months.
Couldn't be working part time for long.

decided to find a full time job.
send resume, went for interview during off days.

and i got myself a job in Marina Bay Sands.

So..
my last few days at Airport Terminal 2.


got myself into a new working environment.
Marina Bay Sands(:



it's tough.
setting up the whole shop from nothing.
inventories were all over.

everything seems to be in a mess.
the shop don't even have plastic bag.
hahahaha!

met a few good friends at work(:


had been seeing ben(:
not yet together. or mayb will never be together?

anyway, he's a nice guy who give me space when i needed it.

hongjun side..
still messy.
holding on very tightly till i couldn't breathe.

decided to take up driving.
yesssssssssssssssssss.
somehow got the motivation to take up driving.
(though i used to say i would never ever take up driving. hahahaa)
weird how pple change over time. hmmmmm.

July

met up with Sharmine since she is back from overseas for a short while.
celebrated her 21st with her over simple buffet lunch (:


got invited to Shawn's 21st.
my first time going for 21st party.
i rushed to the west after my work ended.

it's sister's elegant 18th(:
(i felt soooooooooooo bad as i didnt really celebrate with her as i was working full shift on her actual bdae)

(the pretty balloons from her boyf)

hongjun and i..
pretty much settled.
he went overseas alone to cool down.
and somehow, with the help of my mum and my colleagues, things ended totally!

ben was upset with me.
he couldn't understand why he can't step in to help resolve me and hongjun never-seems-to-end-relationship.
i didn't want him to step in as i don't want the things to get more complicated.

anyway, things are settled. so ya.

daddy is 44years old this year(:


and.........
me and ben gt tgt on 29th july(:

August

I decided to quit the job in Marina Bay Sands.
one of the main reasons is due to the timing.
aftnn shift is like hell; 12pm-10pm.
but i leave house at 10am and reach home at 12am.
i don't spend time with my family and ben!
and off days are on weekdays. only one off is on weekends.
i can't afford this,
especially when ben is in army and can only book out on weekends.
hmmmm.

so goodbye to Marina Bay Sands.

went bintan with my family a wk after my last day at MBS(:






random meet up with Claudia(:
thank goodness i have best friends like her who stand by me throughout my whole complicated relationship with hongjun and ben.

i don't need a dozen friends, just a few who knows me well(:

19th aug, i passed my BTT.
yay(:
booked my FTT in nov.

1st month with Ben.
coincidentally, it was a day whereby his niece celebrate her 1st bday(:
so we went to his sister house.
didn;t had much celebration with him alone,
but his hugs and kisses are good enough for me(:

September

started my career as Assistant ChildCare Teacher.
After 3months, they will send me to course; diploma in Early Childhood.
The course will take 1 year, whereby i study for 3days and go back wrk for 2days.
they will still pay me(:
condition is to be bonded with them for 1 year after i graduate from my course.

celebrated Carmen and Shermaine's 20th bdae(:

celebrated Mum's 42nd bdae(:
a little surprise for mum as we brought her up to 56th level at Marina Bay Sands.



in the midst of doing something big for ben.
cause it's his 21st bdae next month.
(i was stuck in between initially,
didn't know if i should do something grand for him or not as we are tgt for less than 1 year? to be exact, only 2 months plus when it's his bdae. hahaha.
still, i decided to do something grand as there's only one 21st in a lifetime. hahaa)

October

Went JB with mother side over the weekends (:


surprise claudia on 7th October(her bdae eve)
went to her childcare centre to pass her chocolates and card(:

then i rushed off to the west, to set up BBQ Pit for ben's 21st bdae party.

It was a success(:
i gathered most of his closest friends and family to celebrate his 21st with him




not long after, it was Yu Kai's 2nd bdae(:


then, it was me and ben's 3rd month tgt.
how time flies(:
he cooked rotti for me(:

halloween(:
he agreed to help the community by volunteering his house for house visiting for halloween.
after so many children come his house for "treat or trick", we cleared the place and went for his friend's 21st bdae; halloween theme(:



November

a month of joy.
cause it's my bdae month.
haaaaaaaaaaaa(:

celebrated my bdae with 1st love on the 1st day of November.



gifts from xinling bestie(:

met the cow family.
and realise the Mrs Khiat is pregnant.
they actually kept it from me, and only tell me during meet up for my bdae.
hahahaha,
what a nice surprise; one of my greatest gift(:


hongjun insist to meet up as a friend to celebrate my bdae.
ben allow (he is soooooooo understanding).
and so i went out with hongjun. and his gift for me.


from man lin(:

from 5th nov to 7th nov, i went Malaysia to celebrate my bdae with my family.
Ben didn't tag along as this was prebook super long time ago.




on 8th nov, family surprise me with cake(:
from p.Osh.
i super love it(:


9th nov, at 00:00.
someone is at my doorstep.
my dearest ben with cake and my gift(:

went for orientation at HQ!
and had dinner with ben at Porta Porta.

Had bdae celebration with piggies too(:

on 11th nov, i failed my FTT ):
felt super super mad at myself,
as i failed by one question.

Ben did the most romantic thing(:
he came from west to east by train, just to give me a hug,
and went back to west as he got NS the next day.
awwwwwwwwwwwwww.

12th Nov.
it's my k2 graduation.
how time flies.
i had already been with them for 3months(:

29th nov is the start of my diploma in Early Childhood course.
my one year course begins.
Lucky that Claudia is in the same class as me.
And hajar too(:

and this is how we form a group, together with a new girl called Christine(:

My class is super big,
with full strength of 50! hahahaha(:

December

last month of the year.

11th December, my family and i went to Resort World Sentosa for the first time after it was opened(:
Auntie Janet had booked a room there.
how cool(:


celebrate gina's 20th;
last in 1st love to turn 20. hahaha(:

christmas celebration at home.
simple dinner, exchanges of gift(:



celebrated hongjun bdae with zuanzhe pohli brandon.
thanks to ben who allowed me to go.
cause i feel bad for not celebrating hongjun bdae as he celebrated mine.

anyway, 29dec is my cousin wedding.
sooooo. i wouldnt be meeting ben to celebrate our 5th month tgt.
BUT....
i surprise him at his doorstep at midnight with the cupcakes i had made(:

last day of year 2010 was spend at ben house.
dinner with his family.

it was a rollar coaster year.
lots of things change.

relationship status especially;
from attached to complicated to single to complicated to attached.

jobs as well;
graduated,
worked in zoo,
worked in aiport t2,
worked in marina bay sands,
worked in childcare.

went overseas a number of times as well;
genting (with huilin shermaine gina)
taiwan(with hongjun and his family)
bintan(my family)
malaysia JB(mother side family)
malaysia AFOMSA (my family)

one thing that had never ever changed!
my family.

thanks to them that i can stand up strongly from my past relationship and have the courage to move on to another relationship (despite lots of pple talking behind my back about me moving on too quickly and all).
thanks to them that i can change my job till something i like.
thanks to them for all the love they gave(:

and 1st love remain strong after graduating.
hope this wouldn't change.

and i am blessed that claudia and xinling are always by my side(:

i am a happy girl.

hoping that year 2011 will be a better better year(:

signing off-huimin